Sometimes, I find myself overwhelmed by my to-do list. Housework is a neverending cycle. I’m trying to finish up this degree I’ve invested so much in. My kids need me. My husband needs me. And I need to be the woman God calls me to be.
Sometimes, all that stuff gets in the way of me. I’m an introvert by nature and “need” quiet time. Read a book. Surf the web…pinterest, Christian blogs, facebook…there are MANY things online to distract me.
I could find countless online articles right now that talk about the importance of MY time.
But, the truth is, I don’t have any time. If I am in Christ, my life is not my own. My time is not my own.
Philippians 2:5 tells us, “Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus.” What mind was in Christ Jesus when it came to HIS time? It was as in everything else—humility, always putting other people and the will of His Father above everything else.
We can find this in Mark 6:27-34. John the Baptist was beheaded. The disciples told Jesus about it and Jesus said, “Come aside by yourselves to a deserted place and rest a while.” The verse (31) goes on to say “For there were many coming and going, and they did not even have time to eat.” They were tired, hungry and needed a rest. They were seeking solitude. To wind down. As a stay-at-home mom, how often do I seek solitude, some time to wind down? I know what I do when that solitude is interrupted. I get frustrated. What did Jesus do when His solitude was interrupted?
“But the multitudes…arrived before them and came together to Him” He didn’t even get a moment of solitude in this passage because there was a throng of people waiting for Him when He got there. What did He do? “Jesus, when He came out, saw a great multitude and was moved with compassion for them.”
Wow. When my family interrupts what I think should be my quiet time, my solitary time, my few minutes away from everything…I get frustrated. When Jesus was interrupted, he was moved with compassion.
In a similar instance in Mark 1:32-38, we see Jesus retreat to a solitary place to pray. Jesus had been ministering to people the whole day. We are told in verse 33 that the whole city was gathered together at the door, and He healed many. The next morning he woke up extra early to pray in solitude. Jesus had a very busy day. He was looking to refresh Himself! How many times do I feel like I’ve had a busy day and deserve the right to refresh myself with some quiet time?
But, Simon and others came looking for Jesus and said, “Everyone is looking for you.”
The life of a mom means that there is always someone looking for us, someone needing something. And I get frustrated. I want to be able to read my Bible, fold the laundry, even do chores without interruption, and a little time to wind down at the end of the day. Jesus could have said the same thing…Just give me a few minutes to pray in peace, people! Leave me alone. But, he didn’t. Instead, He replied, “Let us go into the next towns, that I may preach there also, because for this purpose I have come forth.”
Jesus knew that His purpose was to carry out the will of His Father. Nothing more. Nothing less. I pray that I could grasp that same understanding. My life is not my own. My time is not my own. My purpose is to carry out the will of my Father. Nothing more (despite my own ambitions), and certainly nothing less.