A Picture of Serving Joyfully

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Serve through laundry


I started this blog 2 years ago, and titled it “Serving Joyfully” because that is the longing of my heart. I believe the Lord called me to be a keeper of the home. And I want to serve my family–not begrudgingly, but joyfully. 

I still have that desire, but I have to be honest and tell you that I haven’t mastered this just yet. Some days, things remain undone that need to be done. Some days, things are done, but with a poor attitude. I am a work in progress.

I have shared here before that I long for a simpler lifestyle. I feel a constant tension between the longing of my heart, and this modern world I am living in. I have been reading this book, Amish Values for Your FamilyIt is a fantastic book and one that I strongly recommend. I have no connection to this particular book, except that I purchased it and have really enjoyed it.

Amish Values


Anyway, when reading it a few nights ago, I read a particular story about laundry day for this Amish family. Everything was done by hand, and the process took hours, and was done in all different kinds of weather–the hottest of days, and the coldest of days. The author even mentioned that in some winter days the water would freeze up between loads. Overall, the process seemed like such an awful chore.

After years and years of this hard work, the district decided to allow gas-powered washing machines. The man of the house offered to buy one for Christmas.

My response would have been “Yes!” I would probably be elated, and ready to throw a party.

But not the mother in this story. She said no. Her husband reminded her that the machine would cut the job in half.

Her response: “As I wash those clothes, I use the time to pray for each one of my children. That’s not time I want cut in half.”

Wow. Just wow.

So humbling to see that response, and compare it to what I know mine would have been. And it reminded me of how far I have to go.

This woman and her response are the epitome of serving joyfully. She had an awful, inconvenient, tiresome chore. She could have dreaded it, begrudged it, and focused on the negative. She would have had a crabby attitude that would rub off on her children, her husband, and her home.

But instead, she chose to serve her family, and her God, with a joyful and loving spirit. Such an inspiration.

The words from Colossians 3:23 are always so convicting to me, And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men.

The Lord is always there, and every single thing I do for my family, I should do joyfully, and heartily, as if I am doing it for Him…because I am.

Lord, I pray that you will give me a heart of love, selflessness, and service for my family. When I am in the midst of the mundane tasks of homemaking and parenting, I pray that the fruits of the Spirit would reign in my heart. I pray that I wouldn’t see chores as burdensome, but would instead have a heart of thanksgiving, and joy as I serve my family, and serve you through them. Thank you Lord for your grace and mercy that is new each morning. Amen.


What does it look like to serve our families with a joyful spirit?





  1. Alysson Cook Reese says

    You are such a neat person! I'm so glad God led me to your blog! Your words and longings echo the exact ones in my own heart!!! It's this longing to be God's little handmaid like Mary!!! Thank you for letting God speak through you!

  2. Crystal Brothers says

    Alysson, thank you so much for your kind words. Yes, that's exactly it, a longing to be his vessel. I pray that He will bless you in that as well.

  3. Mel says

    Wow, what a wonderful story…thank you for sharing! I get so much out of your posts, and I am not even religious. This is a great lesson on attitude for anyone!!

  4. says

    Thank you for sharing the story from the book. I have NEVER thought to pray for my kiddos while folding laundry, but this is an EXCELLENT idea. Thanks again :)

  5. says

    This really blessed me so. I pray God blesses you for sharing with us. I know that our attitudes, thoughts and other matters of the heart are so dear to His!

  6. says

    I think I’d find a different time to pray for my kids and take the washing machine. Serving joyfully and not getting caught in the swing and sway of our shifting attitudes can be a challenge. That’s why I’m inspired by the verse you shared to to do all we do at for the Lord. I’m your neighbor today at Faith Filled Friday.

  7. says

    I love that book. I finished reading it not too long ago. Since then I have been trying to serve my family with a joyfull heart. I truly want to serve them. I love doing it. I love being wife and mother. It's something I work on each day.

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